30 Days of Empowerment Day 6: Change Happens!

30 Days of Empowerment
Day 6

Change Happens

Last Saturday, I had a reminder that change happens, that one always should have a plan A, B, C, etc on hand... Why? Murphy's Law happens!... And more often than not.

In this case, I had prepared a wonderful, quite detailed, very uplifting and informative presentation to be presented to a quite special group of persons... I had plans of music, a great interactive and introductory session.... Ahhh, but due to technical unexpected circumstances, the complete plan went to China.... It was beyond my control, no matter how wonderful, my presentation, as planned, could not go, since there was no way of showing it and it was too late to go to my center and retrieve a projector and screen.

Now, what would you do? As always, I say perception and contextual value of things and issues come into play... Of course, I had put so much effort in it that, I did not think of anything going wrong! Ha, I had to present to present to almost, if not over 100 extraordinary persons with no props, intro, or anything... And had about half an hour to re-group.

Did I panic, during an instant...

Immediately, I changed into creativity mode. I could have not done it, if I let panic take over and ruin the expentancy of the group... Or become so nervous that it would have not even let me remember what, I so carefully had planned... Well, I got a pen wrote down some leads, reminded myself that I knew the topic, to focus, find an alternative creative way of presenting, to do my best with what I had and to speak from my heart... Yes, speak from my heart to theirs... Aha, I was able to find some soft music, put my heart into it and let the show begin... I was sooo happy, that even though, I did not follow my notes and was presenting way less than what I had prepared, my message was heard loud and clear, and most importantly, it had feeling, heart, and it was understood with impact. I was so honored to have been there.

LESSONS LEARNED:

... always have a second or third plan of action, with technology assume things can and will go wrong

...when you do something, whatever it may be... Know it well, and have an alternate way of saying it

...work with your heart, it never fails and shows

...do not panic, no matter the circumstance, there is always a way, if we allow our selves to remain calm and in control, and know that we have the power to change the context in which we can react, or see a situation

... Enjoy the ride, the journey, the actual issue, and raise your perception to be able to learn a lesson as I did and be proud of yourself for succeeding over it!

Let Godspeed: Believe, Achieve, Enjoy and Succeed! Guide and help you triumph regardless the circumstances. Please visit: www.succeedwithrevbarbarasoliman.ning.com

Namaste!

... Allow the Wonders of Magic To Fill Your Life With Miracles!

.... Magic, oh magic is all over our lives, it's in love, nature, our kitchen, the angels and archangels we so often call on, our wishes, our wants, our prayers and desires... It's our deliverate positive intention in reaching out to the universe...

Let the Magic of the season fill your heart with joy and wonder...

From Godspeed, "An idea is born... Ah like magic, IT HAS TO MANIFEST! Write down a wish... Feel it in your heart... Cherish it as a treasure that you can see, feel, and even smell it... Give it feeling of belonging in your heart... Fill your mind with great joy about it! Now, is it real enough for you? ...

Allow yourself to experience in your mind how great it is for it to be real or yours, be really grateful and now about one to two minutes have passed... Let the miracle begin by just knowing deep in your heart that the seed is planted at a quamtum level, a manifestation idea has been developed... Expect to be amazed... Go for it... Namaste!

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... Allow the Wonders of Magic To Fill Your Life With Miracles!

.... Magic, oh magic is all over our lives, it's in love, nature, our kitchen, the angels and archangels we so often call on, our wishes, our wants, our prayers and desires... It's our deliverate positive intention in reaching out to the universe...

Let the Magic of the season fill your heart with joy and wonder...

From Godspeed, "An idea is born... Ah like magic, IT HAS TO MANIFEST! Write down a wish... Feel it in your heart... Cherish it as a treasure that you can see, feel, and even smell it... Give it feeling of belonging in your heart... Fill your mind with great joy about it! Now, is it real enough for you? ...

Allow yourself to experience in your mind how great it is for it to be real or yours, be really grateful and now about one to two minutes have passed... Let the miracle begin by just knowing deep in your heart that the seed is planted at a quamtum level, a manifestation idea has been developed... Expect to be amazed... Go for it... Namaste!

Coming later this December 2010 Godspeed various intervention on The Magic of this Marvelous Season!...www.succeedwithrevbarbarasoliman.ning.com Go For IT! Namaste!

... Allow The Wonders of Magic In Your Life!

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LETS MAKE A DIFFERENCE NOW! "Hope IS Alive Saturday!"

"Hope IS Alive Saturday!"

I just had an idea, we all do infinite numbers of kind actions to total strangers, yet the media, and all we hear is how bad things are.... I want to send out a challenge: we have Black Friday ... Monday... and so on. Why not make it "Hope IS Alive Saturday" make it our specific intent to do at least one conscious deliberate act of kindness... Keep tract of it and post it in facebook as "Hope IS Alive Saturday." Spread the word as if it was the wind, through out our planet...lets show the power of positive intent... That Hope IS Alive and thriving and it Within Our Hearts to Spread It's Wings ... That we however small, united, we are a huge force to be known...

What can you do? SMILE, it is contagious.... Open the doors to strangers, buy a meal at a fast food chain and give it to a homeless, give directions to a lost person... Let some person go ahead in line.... Ahhh traffic, be considerate and be kind in the highway... Tip good if you can... Do the dishes for a loved one... Say a compliment... Love yourself and others...Do a nice deed for an elderly neighbor!

... One other understand those with different abilities from you... Child or adult, resect them and their families... It will really be appreciated... Namaste! ( ...as with all in life, use common sense, use respect and dignity in all)

Go for it Namaste! You can follow this thread in this Facebook... http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=lf#!/profile.php?id=621027258

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Let us prove to our own selves and all, the huge power that we can have, when we, not only unite with our friends, but with total strangers for a good cause... Let us start doing some great deeds... Go for it! Namaste!

GRATITUDE IS SO MUCH MORE THAN JUST THANKS! 30 Days of Empowerment, Growth, and Success…

( I see myself in this deeply spiritual and empowering painting by Carlos Augusto Pereira, world renowned extraordinary artist! My infinite gratitude to you Carlos, for it is your great spirit and enlightenment, that is showcased in your infinite artform... It is a great honor to have cross paths in time and space, in this magnificent holographic universe and most of all to be your friend!)

30 Days of Empowerment, Growth, and Success…

Day Four
In Gratitude There Not Just Thanks,
BUT GREAT MIRACLES AND GROWTH!

I am very grateful for you to be reading this blog entry… May YOUR life be filled with joy, wonder, awe, extraordinary manifestations of the glory of the divinity in it, may you be healthy, wealthy in all aspects (including monetary richness), be protected, have a long life being an instrument of good, and have the time to enjoy it all at its fullest. Namaste!

- Rev. Barbara Soliman, Godspeed: Believe, Achieve, Enjoy & Succeed!

Now, stop for a moment and ask yourself after touching your wrist and feel your heartbeat? What, who, how is this miracle of my heartbeat, my breathing, my standing or seating on this chair can be? How can the billions of circuits that exist within me work so amazingly well with each other… the infinite processes that are at this very moment, and each moment of my earthly or otherwise existence can happen not only simultaneously, but also automatically? Do you imagine the processes going on in nature, the our earth, solar system, the universe itself? How about the spiritual, multi-dimensional holographic, no time no space existence that goes so much further than meet our senses? Do you get the picture?

We live in a world of miracles, of extraordinary happenings that are going on without us really paying attention to them. They happen at the most incredible micro and macro levels. We do not have to worry if the sun or moon will come up, our bodies to work, nature to have the birds sing and fly, the rivers to flow without floating out to space because of earth’s gravitational field and so much more… Ahh wonders…!

Imagine your life, no matter the issues, the circumstances, challenges that we are currently experiencing, we have so much to be grateful for… First, WE ARE ALIVE! That in itself is so much to appreciate, we mostly have a roof over our heads, food on the table, have family, friends, pets, coworkers, so many people, even the strangers to be so thankful for. We live in a country where it is encouraged for one to speak out one’s perception of anything, to defend one’s views, likes, dislikes without the fright of being apprehended or killed… We have a magnificent land that we call “of the free.” We have no limits to what we can become or be… that no matter your profession, you are respected and HAVE A VOICE! A country which is really beautiful, has values, we can differ, yet eat dinner together in harmony… that is democracy at its best!

If we are sick, we can be cured, we have the best of care in this earth. There is so much available to us, Oh my God, so much to be thankful for, that even on that which we call death, or transitional state of being from one single line universe to one of a multitude of manifestations, we can find the comfort to able to remember the joys, experiences, and love shared. Even without money, there are a myriad of ways to find low cost or free things that bring us great joy.

That even if those nearsighted beings that once shared the best of us, may have left us to deal with less than ideal situations, we thank them for the memories, for the magnificent learning that the struggles have given us and helped us grow beyond limits. To the sick ones that we have had to help live, thrive, and love without limits… Oh so much my dear friend…

When we are grateful, we acknowledge the best in a situation, we bring forth the positive in it. When we offer gratitude in front of a prayer, decree, intention, manifestation, meditation, or mantra we bring forth the process of faith, belief, and the universe or divine starts its process of manifesting…!

In gratitude, our vibrational rate changes to a more positive life force which changes the perception and contextual value of that which we are grateful for. It elevates our feelings. It puts in action the dynamics of something better that is being thankful for processes in our subconscious mind, thus brings it to us in miraculous ways.

Gratitude is a small word that carries so much weight, power, and a real manifestation of truth, miracles, and a new reality for our current state of mind or situation.

Bring the wheels of time, essence, and creation into movement by believing before seeing, being thankful is true expectancy and the UNIVERSE PROVIDES… AMEN!

Experience it, let it permeate your life, fill your every pore, ALLOW IT to flow freely through your existence and EXPECT for great things to happen…

May the Spirit of This Extraordinary Season fill your heart and soul with great joy, greatness, and the wisdom to be able to enjoy it at its fullest!

Namaste!

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SUCCEED!: 30 Days of Empowerment, Growth, and Learning… Regardless the situation, I can thrive, and succeed!!

SUCCEED!: 30 Days of Empowerment, Growth, and Learning… Regardless the situation, I can thrive, and succeed!!

30 Days of Empowerment, Growth, and Learning… Regardless the situation, I can thrive, and succeed!!

Day Three
In My Mind, MY CHOICES, MY PERCEPTION... I CAN AND AM FREE!

I hold the key to my freedom, no matter the circumstance. I am the captain of my own universe. No one can make feel bad, blame me, for past mistakes, or even present hurdles that have derived from them. Usually, we get blamed for living, yes, for living. Those around us can try to belittle us, make themselves feel bigger, more powerful, get satisfaction of intentionally putting us down by pointing every little issue that we make or do different, good, bad, or not up to their standards. Many times, this behavior is a call for help from the person who is either having mayor issues themselves, not knowing how to solve those issues, needs a scapegoat in order to feel empowered, some else is doing the same behavior to them, or simply utilizes one because is the only person who they can actually do the negative behavior to without being hurt or have it bounce back at them. Ah, but the law of cause and effect does not forget…

It is within our power to stop this person or persons from making one feel inferior, bad, or less than desirable, ugly, etc. When we know we are doing the correct action, that life is full of lessons, that we do not deserve that derivative behavior, we then become FREE!

We have the ultimate choice to ALLOW what can and cannot hurt or belittle us. We have the power to stand up, and yet not be confrontational. By acting assuredly, assertively, and letting those around us know that their actions, words, emotional tantrums, opinions are respected, because it is their perceptions of the issues happening, yet they do not, cannot, and will not affect us. Things will change, when we stand tall for our beliefs, not having to insult, or respond badly to the other person(s), we simply BELIEVE DEEPLY IN OURSELVES, IN THE POWER WITHIN THAT MAKES US UNIQUE AND TRULY BEAUTIFUL!

We are allowed to make mistakes, we do not want or deliverately make them, but we learn from them and are our greatest teachers. We are not perfect, yet we can do our best. We have our OWN perception of issues and circumstances as well.

Educate yourself in how to be able to see reality around. Make it a choice to look at your entire situation from a director’s point of view. Imagine yourself at a movie theater, then place your self at the seat of the person controlling the movie. You can rewind it, play it forward, you can stop it at any given moment. See it (the movie of your life) from a detached point of view. Look and analyze each of the players, actors, their roles, how you all affect each other. From this perspective see their body language, their true reactions, how they interact with others. You are now in control, you will see what has been missing from the entire picture.

Now, you can feel empowered to make the correct decisions. See yourself, making the correct decisions. Ask for guidance from your higher self, angels, spiritual guides, the divine, other humans who have proven loyalty to you, or a professional specialist on the subject. Hire a coach, who can give you the inspiration and perceptual value to your needed goals or situation.

You have an extraordinary resource, YOUR OWN MIND! You can control how you react to issues. You can change the contextual or perceptive value of all in your life. You can choose joy, happiness, control of your live, to see beauty and the positive in all situations. A day may be cloudy, rainy, windy and with all the components to make your life miserable, YET, YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE A WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE, ONE WITH PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS ALL AROUND YOU AND THE RAIN WILL BE REFRESHING, SOOTHING, AND MUSIC TO YOUR EARS AS IT HITS THE WINDSHIELD, WINDOW, OR STREET… THE WIND WILL CARESS YOUR FACE AND GIVE YOU A WONDERFUL LIBERATING FEELING… THE ENTIRE EXPERIENCE WILL PROVE SO WONDERFUL THAT YOU WILL REMEMBER IT FOR TIME TO COME! Now the oppositve, a perfect sunny day, but you have a bad mood, feel low, depressed, ugly, fat, not intelligent, not worth it, and I can assure you it becomes the worse thing or time for you to remember… and you will remember!

Now, you choose your thoughts, your actions, your perception, allow only good, feel that you are so unique that you can see the actual miracle that your life IS! You are open to miracles, to seeing beauty in yourself and others, you expect good things to happen, you respect others and are and demand respect as well. NOW YOU ARE BECOMING IN CHARGE, YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF WHAT HAPPENS, THE DIVINE CAN MANIFEST ITS WONDERS THROUGH YOU, BECAUSE GUESS WHAT… YOU ARE NOT BLOCKING YOUR BEST LIFE TO BE!

SO IN YOUR MIND, BODY, AND SOUL BE FREE!

Namaste!

Rev. Barbara Soliman

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... Stillness, an opportunity for incredible growth!

... At 4 am the night was still, a light breeze caressed my face as I opened the car windows down even with the air conditioner going... I asked the divine to cleanse, bless, protect, and illuminate me, mine, and all as well... In the still of the night you can hear and even smell things you normally would not... I stood still for some seconds and experienced the moment... I encourage you to do the same, even in the middle of the day... You will be amazed at the things you discover, not just outside, but inside yourself as well... Allow, my friends for stillness, even momentarily in your existence, let it help you to experience life... Your Life! Namaste!

30 Days of Growth and Empowerment

Day Two

Creating Sacred, Safe, and Comforting Space:
Give Yourself A Trigger to Help Keep You in Control

As humans, we long to have a space to call our own. It could be anywhere, private, public, could be one not even ours to claim, but in our minds. One trigger that will elevate our vibrational state and feelings to one of peace, joy, calm, and in control. Everything vibrates, we vibrate, those around us, whether human, animals, nature, even objects which we deem as inanimate. An intended trigger will make us feel as whatever that emotion is that we need at any specific moment

By instilling the ritual of actually creating a very special place for ourselves, we begin the wheel of creation in our subconscious mind thus starting to feel better, in control, and less stressed.

We can create this very unique space, even a shared one, by picking out a color or something in it that brings whatever it is that we are looking to receive back from this area. It can be peace, tranquility, happiness, safety, comfort, illumination, creativity, love, passion, or another feeling. This trigger becomes that reminding mechanism to immediately tell our subconscious mind that we are to go into the desired state. We can program ourselves by looking at this item(s) and purposely, with a directed intention that it will trigger whatever emotion we desire it to bring about. This is best achieved in a relaxed state of mind, not being interrupted, or much less conducting any activity that needs an undisturbed attention.

Different colors bring about varied emotional states:

Red brings passion, action, love

Pink brings pure love, peace, a baby girl,

Blue brings peace, tranquility, calm, protection

Green brings health, wealth, prosperity, love, also calming, and soothing feeling

Yellow brings illumination, happiness, creativity

Let’s say you want to create a safe, calming feeling during your daily rush hour traffic trip to home or to work. You choose a blue, green, or pink item and place it in front of you hanging from the mirror (as long as it does not prevent you from seeing the road clearly), you make it your deliverate focused intention to have it create an instant feeling of calm upon entering the car and your eyes perceiving that item, even if do not remember to consciously do it.
When you are in a stressful situation, look at it purposely upon stopping the car or moving vehicle (remember it is of crucial importance for you to not be taking your eyes from the road and vehicles moving or not moving around you). Allow the feeling to permeate you. This can be also achieved by utilizing sound, a soothing, yet upbeat tune played in the car, can keep you in control, calm, and not be irritated by the traffic, unwavering drivers, and those who purposely are very aggressive on the roads. This very simple mechanism works. Also, remember, that the stranger driver next to you may have an emergency, could be having some very serious issues of their own, can be so distracted that they do not see you, that their perception of the issues affecting all in the surrounding space does not have any connection to them or is related to anything that just happened at work, home, school, or otherwise.

Sacred Space a Home…

Ah, we all long to have that special room where we can relax fully, that creates an oasis of peace and loving emotional uplifting. In reality, not many people can really allocate a true area for them at their homes. So, here is where creativity comes in. Our homes are the projection and perception of who we are our dreams, goals, faith, loves, etc. If we do not have an entire room, how about creating a small area in one. Maybe the office, your bedroom, even the bathroom. I have a friend who has a wonderful chest in her garden, and one in her balcony, one drawer in the kitchen, a shelf in the bathroom, and the top of her night table. Even in her public areas she has created places on bookshelves, tables, the dining, family, living room areas where she has placed items that bring her great joy and comfort in her house. She has a variety of chimes, hanging or table ones, plants, figures that evoke protection, connection, or peace. Even her kitchen is an intended space of family, love, prosperity, health, wealth, and intended comfort via colors, taste, and sound.

Sacred Space at Work…

This is one of the places where we spend the largest amounts of time, other than sleeping in our daily lives. There is where we need it the most to be able to keep ourselves centered, in control, creative, filled with peace regardless the situations faced. If you have a private office then you can always decorate it to have intentional triggers based on issues that you deal mostly with. I have my center created intentionally to give peace, allow the persons to disengage from the outside world, give a feeling of trust, sensitivity, and a total feeling of comfort. At my hospital office, I have the walls painted purple, I have a variety of triggers on my desk that face and welcome my visitors and give them a true feeling of calm, receptive emotion. In the back, I have an extraordinary orchid, with loving figures that permeate the feeling of sisterhood. I have inspirational books, and other items that bring I and others great joy. The frames and pictures on the walls all carry motivational meanings not only to I, but to those who visit my office. I also have a drawer filled with items that give me great peace, information (my pendulums, runes, cards, motivational sayings, etc. This space you can have anywhere, even if you do not have a private office, booth, or even a seating area. I tell my friends, clients, and others to create this special space for you, even within your office supplies in a small box or crevice. You can have a pocket, or something where you can have a small purse or keeping space to keep a token, protective prayer, stone, angel or other religious item, which in need can be touched for comfort.

You can also create sacred space, assigning it to a tree, an outside space where you can see the sky clearly on a break, lunch, or moment of crisis. Look in your building, office area, store, anywhere in your work area that you can assign a trigger to. This way, you can always let it be your reminder to remain in control.

Sacred Space in General…

It is really important to create this special peaceful place for you. It can be religious, or not, it can be private or not, it can be shared or not. But it is designed by you, and you are in control of it.

I have various altars in my house, center, office, car, on me, etc. They are sacred spaces for me which help keep me in tune with my divine self, with my creative self, with all those states of mind that make one a better human being, one with understanding of nature, of all around one. For me, some are very religious oriented, some are not. You may not be able to tell which is which, but they all work for me.

The ultimate result is having a special place in which to meditate, be in real time, and connect with yourself (higher, inner, emotional, physical, and spiritual). This allows you to truly be in control of your life and all the challenges that you face daily as your teachings in this extraordinary lifetime which is really an opportunity to grow beyond limits in our journey towards enlightenment.

Namaste!

Life With Autism: Great Love, Compassion, and Determination to Succeed Against All Odds!

A glimpse into the world and daily life of an Autistic family...
What is living with autism?

" Like this beautiful Man of War, who swiftly moves through a vast ocean of perils, he too reaches maturity, beauty, and steadfastness in his existence..."

... It's Living with the sweetest soul, who loves you without reason... Without questions... Loves you for you... It's unanswered questions from the most beautiful green eyes...

Is waking up at 1.. 2...3...4...5.. in the morning... Doing your morning exercises by running after your loved one who is jumping back and forth as he paces desperately flapping his hands, head and chest back and forth thrusting with force forward as you do your best to calm him, because his heart beats so fast it practically escapes his body...

Is finally calming him down, and an airplane wakes him up again, now this time he fixates on moving furniture, frames, all items around the house... You then realize, he remembers that years ago they were placed there... In my case it's 3 am time to get up for some very special work...

Then it may be 6 am, and you are a bit (!!!) tired, you fall asleep... Ah but you, by then, already have to get him up to get ready for school... You give him a bath dress him, and when you leave your shower, he needs another bath... Ah finally, you are out the door... The you see him running from your hand towards the trashcan on the street where he, while struggling with you, takes the trash bags out... Finally you take him back home again... Wash him, change clothes and off to school you go....

Ah now, you get to your "main" job.... Where did the day go? It's 5 pm and... You pick him up in the early evening and he lovingly gives you a bear hug and kiss and makes sure you have your seatbelt on and your armrest down...

On the way home does he not only moves ay least 300 to 400 times back and forth, but also undoes his seatbelt and goes to the back of your van to get something he remembered. You stop in rush hour traffic while those around you don't realize why the car moves up and down either moving or while stopped... You finally get him to his seat, and he lovingly reminds you to put on your seatbelt with the most loving smile, not realizing the traffic jam, cursing, blowing horns, and non understanding fellow drivers...

Ah, now you get home, and in my case, you go to your second passion "Gofspeed," in my case, my other great love and do some wonderful things... Get home by 10 or 11 pm and he is waiting jumping for you, he hugs you, you flop on bed and give him your hand where from his bed he longs for his mom's touch and kiss good night...

It's past midnight, you either write some great things with a cup of hot tea, and by one go to sleep until three am, unless he wakes up before... And you start again... Sometimes, this might last a week or more... Ah, and the infinite trying to take one more shower, emptying the refrigerator either by eating or throwing food away, you just brought from Publix...

It's a twenty four hour vigil so he does not escape or tries to do some creative endeavor...

It's dealing with a super bright individual, who longs to help, be part of all, who loves without barriers, who is sweet, kind, intelligent, extremely "ordenado", who can do great deeds of love, yet is limited by a string of constants which makes an 18 year old act and behave like a terrible two's year old, without realizing the potential dangers of a situation, but that does it with the best of his intention....

It is being so grateful to the Divine for him, your mother, his brothers, aunts for their neverending support, help, dedication and love... For those at work at the hospital who look away when one is five minutes late, the boss who is also an angel, a sister, a friend... the pharmacy staff, whom are my everlasting support and help with his (and grandma's) very expensive medicine, the angels at his school, my friends, clients, and those who interchange our daily living with hope and great wonders...

It is sending compassion and forgiveness to those who left you to do this on your own, not realizing the great growth and love lost that they could have had in the missed journey, not realizing the gigantous ordeal that is to sustain a family of 6 on ones own specially with special ones like we have, or to those who simply cannot understand that this condition is real... to those who see me laugh, bring out the best in the worst of situations, have great faith, be able to teach on all the motivational and inspirational issues in the world, and cannot imagine that I go through daily with this and many other challenging situations and still smile from side to side...

And you ask how I do it? I use and do all that I teach on myself, family, him, and all I do... Easy, no, with great love, you bet, with deliverate intention, faith, and great will power and determination to succeed over it? Without a doubt! That I am sure, Omar will speak and will wake up soon from the Autistic Cloud, Oh YES!

Last week and this weekend, even up to now, it was one of these long and exhausting times, which started to finally take a toll on me... Am I exhausted, Yes! Did I pass out last night, oh yes! How did I wake up this morning at 3 am, with great faith and my things... Determination and great love for my gamily... Did I prove to my self that we no matter the circumstance you can find something good, and find great Joy in it, Oh Yes! Do I adore Omar, my mom, his brothers, my aunts, without a doubt!

Orden Divino y Gracias Padre, por el Bien Manifestado!

Namaste!

... Life With Autism: Great Love, Compassion, and Determination to Succeed Against All Odds!

A glimpse into the world and daily life of an Autistic family... What is living with autism?... It's Living with the sweetest soul, who loves you without reason... Without questions... Loves you for you... It's unanswered questions from the most beautiful hteen eyes... Is waking up at 1.. 2...3...4...5.. In the morning... Doing your morning exercises by running after your loved one who is jumping back and forth as he paces desperately flapping his hands, head and chest back and forth thrusting with force forward as you do your best to calm him, because his heart beats so fast it practically escapes his body... Is finally calming him down, and an airplane wakes him up again, now this time he fixates on moving furniture, frames, all items around the house... You then realize, he remembers that years ago they were placed there... In my case it's 3 am time to get up for dome very special work... Then it may be 6 am, and you are a bit (!!!) tired, you fall asleep... Ah but you by then,  already have to get him up to get ready for school... You give him a bath dress him, and when you leave your shower, he needs another bath... Ah finally, you are out the door... The you see him running from your hand towards the trashcan on the street where he, while struggling with you, takes the trash bags out... Finally you take him back home again... Wash him, change clothes and off to school you go.... Ah now, you get to your "main" job.... It's 5 pm and... You pick him up in the early evening and he lovingly gives tou a bear hug and kiss... On the way home does he not only moves ay least 300 to 400 times back and forth, but also undoes his seatbelt and goes to the back of your van to get something he remembered. You stop in rush hour traffic while those around you don't realize why the car moves up and down as moving or stopped... You finally get him to his seat, and he lovingly reminds you to put on your seatbelt with the most loving smile, not realizing the traffic jam, cursing, blowing horns, and non understanding fellow drivers... Ah, now you get home, and in my case, you go to your second passion "Gofspeed," in my case, my other great love and do some wonderful things... Get home by 10 or 11 pm and he is waiting jumping for you, he hugs you, you flop on bed and give him your hand where from his bed he longs for his moms touch and kiss good night... It's past midnight, you either write some great things with a cup of hot tea and by one go to sleep until three am, unless he wakes up before... And you start again... Sometimes, this might last a week or more... Ah, and the infinite trying to take one more shower, emptying the refrigerator either by eating or throwing food away, you just brout from Publix... It's a twenty four hour vigil so he does not escape or tries to do some creative endeavor... It's dealing with a super  bright individual, who longs to help, be part of all, who loves without barriers, who is sweet, kind, extremely "ordenado", who can do great deefs of love, yet is limited by a string of constants which makes an 18 year old act and behave, without realizing the potential dangers of a situation, but that does it with the best of his intention.... It is being so grateful yo the Divine for him, your mother, his brothers, aunts for their neverending support, help, dedication and love... Is sending compassion, forgiveness, to those who left you to do this on your own, not realizing the great growth and love lost in the missed journey, not realizing the gigantous ordeal that is to sustain a family of 6 on ones own specially with special ones like we have, or to those who simply cannot understand that this condition is real... And you ask how I do it? I use and do all I teach on myself, family, him, and all I do... Easy, no, with great love, you bet, with deliverate intention, faith, and great will power and determination to succeed over it? Without a doubt! That I am sure, Omar will speak and will wake up soon from the Autistic Cloud, Oh YES! Last week and this weekend, even up to now, it was one of these long and exhausting times, which started to finally take a toll on me... Am I exhausted, Yes! Did I pass out last night, oh yes! How did I wake up this morning at 3 am, with great faith and my things... Determination and great love for my gamily... Did I prove to my self that we no matter the circumstance you can find something good, Oh Yes! Do I adore Omar, my mom, his brothers, my aunts, without a doubt! Orden Divino y Gracias Padre, por el Bien Manifestado! Namaste!

30 Days of Growth and Empowerment

Day One
Dare to BE HAPPY

Yes, I Dare You To Experience Joy and Happiness in YOUR LIFE!

Why? We have been taught to be subconsciously ashamed or doubtful of feeling great excitement and happiness. We were many times told we had to suffer, be poor, and feel pain to gain heaven, gain freedom to our soul, or simply be a better person. In addition, we are faced with a daunting amount of daily issues, unsurmountable losses of very dear ones, challenges of all types that bombard our existence with sabotage to lead us away from living a great joyful life.

Well NO MORE!

YOU deserve all the joy, happiness, richness at all levels (which does include financial freedom), the experience of great love and passion, be it a partner, a pet, project, your family and friends, a hobby, or whatever sparks that energy release when you REALLY LOVE!

Make it your goal today to no matter what life throws at you, YOU will triumph over it. No matter if you are short in money for whatever mortgage, gas, payment, etc. Ask YOUR ANGELS, whichever way you reach out to the Divine for guidance, resolution, with great joy and gratitude for a most positive benevolent outcome now! Believe me it works, let the magic of faith work for you!

No matter if someone is making your life a yogurt, send them lots of unconditional love to the spark of life in their hearts that you both share. Stop the ongoing revolution of paying them back with the same. Maybe, just maybe, it's a call for help or attention, they are having serious issues and do not know how to handle them, or simply they forgot to LIVE! Start giving an inmense amount of love, gratitude and joy to those around you, in other words, give them NOW your best, so when they part to their transition or otherwise, you may hurt, but still will be able to rejoice the times spent together. In other words, give love and joy freely and abundantly, even to strangers.

WHY?
OK, get a watch, clock, your phone and CONSCIOUSLY LOOK AT IT FOR 15 seconds.

What just happened? It seemed very long ah? Well, how about if you realize YOU CANNOT BRING THAT TIME BACK! THAT, THAT IS YOUR LIFE ESCAPING YOUR HANDS!
You have the power of great choices. CHOOSE TODAY TO EXPERIENCE JOY, NO MATTER WHAT!

Choose to change the context or your perception of any challenging situation today or anytime.

I can assure that, this small step will carry on by leaps and bound with blessing in your life. I am sure you have experienced the great power of a "simple true smile." What goes around, comes back ten fold, we have been told, and it is TRUE! If we make it a habit of actually being happy, even if we force ourselves to smile and feel it at first, for 5 minutes, then 10, then 15, up to 30 minutes, you would have reached a huge milestone in your life. The reason for this is that we are creatures of habit, and if we create the habit of joy, it will become a true and integral part of us. It really spreads like wildfire, it cleanses our auric, physical, emotional, spiritual bodies. Not to mention that it fills our physical space from home, the office, where you are buying your groceries, everywhere that your energy passes by and touches others it will make a difference.

Choose to seek out good, joy, light, lessons, and finally the best in all!

Note:

Please remember to send me the emails of those who you want this series to go to at: revbarbarasoliman@gmail.com

Also, to visit and join www.succeedwithrevbarbarasoliman.ning.com there you will find a supportive community, tools, workshops, coaching, and so much more!

Namaste!

Rev. Barby Soliman

Genie at YOUR Service...

.... Your subsconcious mind, ... That Great Genie within... Does not analyse, has human logic, nor discriminates... In It's Divine Level SIMPLY MANIFESTS!!! Choose wisely my friends... You DO get what you ask for... WORDS ARE Extremely Powerful Tools, together with desire and faith, BOOM! What we perceive as a miracle, HAPPENS! Namaste!

Thoughts, Desires, Wishes ARE Living Seedlings Which Are Given Life by OUR Thought Processes and CAN Manifest When We ALLOW Them to BE!!!

From Godspeed, "An idea is born... Ah like magic, IT HAS TO MANIFEST!  Write down a wish... Feel it in your heart... Cherish it as a treasure that you can see, feel, and even smell it... Give it feeling of belonging in your heart... Fill your mind with great joy about it! Now, is it real enough for you?  ... Allow yourself to experience in your mind how great it is for it to be real or yours, be really grateful and now about one to two minutes have passed... Let the miracle begin by just knowing deep in your heart that the seed is planted at a quamtum level, a manifestation idea has been developed... Expect to be amazed... Go for it... Namaste!

...POWERFUL, SACRED, EXTRAORDINARY BEING ...Sathya Sai Baba chanting the Gayatri

Om Mani Padme Hum - Deva Premal

Deva Premal om mani padme hum

LIVE NOW!!! ... Yes YOU CAN!

.... When was the last time, you really look at yourself in the mirror? ... no just putting on makeup or shaving does not count.  When did you look at yourself with the true intention of looking at yourself? Of admiring that one of a kind, unique and extraordinary individual you?  ... How about your children, spouse, partner, family, friends.... How about admiring your home (or is it only a house?  It's your call) ... When  did you last notice how tall the tree, standing just outside the door (or "the kids"), how it's (their) shadow now graced you as you stood beneath?  Ah, how Susan,  Pepe or Mercy's grandchildren were starting school?  Oh my, where did time go? Where did I stopped living lost in the land of bills, running the yellows, puffing as you reached your desk... Before even knowing how repeating it again and  even wondering how you got there!!!
NOW, STOP! Take reign of YOUR LIFE! You can, you regardless the circumstance in the economy, the  city you exist at, or your own home.  You have a blank canvas in which to paint IT on. Start really living, ALLOW JOY into your LIFE! Take over NOW! Choose to really LIVE!  Make an inventory of how you are wasting your existence... Make the necessary shifts to allow yourself to grow, experience the small details that escape you that can bring happiness back into your everyday living... Create sacred, private space in your car, work, home!  Listen to life, even to the sound of silence... Stop and not just "smell the roses," ...better yet, touch them too! Allow the frown to turn into a smile, forgive yourself and others, let your inner child loose, be grateful for all, it's not just good for you, it's healthy too! Go for IT my friend, LIVE WITH INTENTION and SEE YOURSELF TRULY BRING JOY INTO YOUR HEART!  Namaste!